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OUR COURSE WILL ENHANCE YOUR MARRIAGE IN 18 AREAS:
Strong communication is fundamental to all relationships. In this section, Matt and Ashten address how couples feel about the quality and quantity of communication in their relationship. You will explore how to share feelings, understand one another, and listen to one another as you unpack 5 tips based on scriptures from the Bible to help you gain clarity for increasing the quality of communication in your relationship.
The Family & Friends section addresses relationship satisfaction with relatives and friends. It looks at each individual’s opinions of the other’s family and friends, as well as the level of influence and/or interference experienced from these relationships.
Family & Friends
Marriages that don't make it often end for similar reasons. Matt and Ashten will help you identify safeguards and boundaries to help protect your marriage against outside threats and potential unseen future harm.
BOUNDARIES
The Marriage Expectations section addresses how realistic or unrealistic each individual is about love, marriage, and the typical challenges that all married couples face.
Expectations
The Conflict Resolution section addresses a couple’s ability to discuss and resolve differences. It measures how effectively couples share opinions, ideas, and feelings, even during times of conflict.
Conflict Resolution
The Sexual Expectations section addresses a couple’s satisfaction with physical affection in their relationship. It also looks at their comfort in discussing sexual issues, expectations, and history.
Sexual Expectations
Align your personal and couple goals to ensure that you’re both heading in the same direction with the goals you both have for your lives.
Goal Setting
The Relationship Roles section addresses a couple’s expectations about how decision making and responsibilities can or should be shared. It looks at each individual’s preferences for traditional or equalitarian roles in their relationship.
Relationship Roles
Research reveals that during marital conflict a husband most often reacts when feeling disrespected and a wife reacts when feeling unloved. We take a look at Dr. Emerson Eggerichs’ findings about the healthy and crazy cycles of marriage.
Love & Respect
The Parenting Expectations section addresses agreement on issues related to having and raising children. This category explores opinions about starting a family, handling discipline, and sharing parenting responsibilities.
Parenting
The Partner Style & Habits section addresses each person’s satisfaction with the personal characteristics and habits of their partner. It looks at each person’s relationship style and habits as expressed in their behavior.
Styles & Habits
The Financial Management section looks at creating realistic financial plans and agreement in the area of finances. It explores opinions about spending habits, savings, debt, and making financial decisions.
Finances
Other couples who have been married for decades have a lot of wisdom and experience to share. Not only will you hear from Matt and Ashten, but also several other couples who will share some of their insight on how to be successful.
MARRIAGE MENTORING
The Leisure Activities section addresses a couple’s satisfaction with the amount and quality of leisure time spent together. It looks at similarities in interests, and satisfaction with the balance of time spent together and apart.
Leisure Activities
We take a look at how your personality differences can create unity or division in your marriage, and how to be on the same page even when you're wired differently.
PersonalitIES
Author Gary Chapman unveils five distinct ways in which people communicate love to one another. Discover the biggest mistakes couples make when it comes to understanding one another's love languages.
FIVE LOVE LANGUAGES
The statistic for failed marriages in the US is 51%. The good news is that there is one relatively simple step you can take to dramatically change the stats in your favor to drop your statistical likelihood of divorce from 51% to less than 1%.
THE 1% DIFFERENCE
The Spiritual Beliefs section addresses how satisfied or involved couples are with the practice and expression of spiritual beliefs in their relationship. This category looks at similarities in spiritual beliefs and whether they are a resource or a source of tension.
SPIRITUAL BELIEFS
OPTION 1: Marriage Checkup Online Course
• Matt & Ashten unpack 18 categories with practical steps for how to be on the same page based on biblical values
• The online course allows you to watch one video at a time at your own pace (videos will be released incrementally from March - May 2021)
• 1-Year money-back guarantee
OPTION 2: Marriage Checkup Assessment
• Matt & Ashten will meet with you personally for 3 sessions
• 2 optional formats for sessions: Face-to-Face or Video Calls (Zoom, Skype, Google Hangouts or Facetime)
• Customized feedback on where you may be missing each other and how you can be more on the same page in your marriage
• Online inventory assessment for both the husband and wife to help identify strength and growth areas from a biblical standpoint
• A couple's report with customized analysis of your relationship
• Couple's Workbook (printable)
• 90 minutes during each session
• 1-Year money-back guarantee
• Availability is limited and not guaranteed
LOVER CHECKUP OPTIONS
WHAT TO EXPECT
• Practical couple challenges that are fun and engaging
• Honest conversations that dig into your past, present and future
• Confidential sessions with facilitators specifically trained for empowering marriages
• A proactive approach to diminishing underlying issues that may currently be causing damage or may cause damage down the road
• Real-life experiences and stories to help you navigate your own path
• A game plan for how to get back on track when everything seems to fall apart
• A stronger relationship than you have ever experienced before
• Hard work that will pay off in huge dividends for decades to come
• A clear understanding of what your spouse needs from you
• Action steps to help you become the ideal spouse for your partner
OPTION 1: LOVER Checkup Online Course ............................................................................................................................
• Matt & Ashten unpack 18 categories with practical steps for how to be on the same page based on biblical values
• The online course allows you to watch one video at a time at your own pace (videos will be released incrementally from March - May 2021)
• 1-Year money-back guarantee
OPTION 2: LOVER Checkup Personal Assessment ..............................................................................................................
• Matt & Ashten will meet with you personally for 3 sessions
• 2 optional formats for sessions: Face-to-Face or Video Calls (Zoom, Skype, Google Hangouts or Facetime)
• Customized feedback on where you may be missing each other and how you can be more on the same page in your marriage
• Online inventory assessment for both the husband and wife to help identify strength and growth areas from a biblical standpoint
• A couple's report with customized analysis of your relationship
• Couple's Workbook (printable)
• 90 minutes during each session
• 1-Year money-back guarantee
• Availability is limited and not guaranteed
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Hey there! We're Matt and Ashten. Some people call us "Mashten", but that's just weird, so don't do that. We met in Durango, CO, back in 2008, and have been happily* married since July 24, 2009. We include that asterisk because it hasn't been all rainbows and unicorns. Marriage is tough. At least ours has been. But we are also confident that when you trust God and live by His Word, you can weather whatever storms come your way. We aren't the perfect couple, but we'll point you in the same direction we want to go in our own marriage, and that's toward Jesus. Join us on a journey with our online course or let's meet in person. We're here to help you win in your marriage.
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If you successfully complete all of your sessions and feel at any time during the following year that the investment you made was not of value to you or your marriage, we will give you 100% of your money back.
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